How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 07:26
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Ask yourself:
What can help me fall asleep at night?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Why do many men like women's breasts?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why do I feel so tired all the time even after a good night’s sleep?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do you find Anushka Sen attractive?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What is a good tool for product analytics besides Google Analytics?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Which current F1 drivers should switch teams based on historical patterns?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Do all rocket engines emit harmful gases into the atmosphere during launch?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why is the government destroying the homeless instead of helping them?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why are you a Muslim? Why is it Islam for you and not something else?
Hangs out with loser friends.
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Procrastinates a lot.